Been chatting with the world. Why is the word "friend" scary. Do friends really exist. By friend I mean the sort that you can discuss your darkest secret and not be betrayed, I have been guilty of that and lost my closest friend.
By friend I mean whom you can chill with and talk trash with. Now if it were a guy, would it be possible. People confess that such relationships exist, none in my world, maybe cos I send out more mating signals than the back slapping sort. Can the ones I have slept with be converted? Nah!
I know a woman who has had a great sexual relationship with a man and now has one of the best friendships with him. They discuss everything that crosses their path and can go on to even discuss their new love lives and have decided to grow old together as neighbours.
I envy women who have platonic relationships with men, especially if they are both good looking. Would they be tempted at some point I wondered? Always different conclusions. Maybe either is not attracted, or they are attracted at different points or are wise enough not to confuse the two and mess up something great like a true friendship.
I don't know. You tell me.
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